Have you noticed? If you want to lose weight, you have to perhaps trade soda for water, and candy for fruit.
If you want to make more money, sometimes you have to spend more money, or learn a new skill in order to make more.
If you desire to enter into new relationships, you may have to let go of old ones, or become a new version of yourself you haven't ever been, in order to become a match for new people.
We also all have to do stuff WE DO NOT WANT TO DO, at times.
I was talking with one of my mentors last night who is a grandmother. She's watching her grandsons and normally the 2 year old does not want to nap. He'd rather stay up and play, duh!!!! However, he needs the rest.
As an adult, you also have things you need to do that you'd rather not want to.
I find having this awareness as well as acceptance has minimized some of my suffering.
Perhaps it can help you relax a bit more, and accept life a wee bit more.
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